I am 53 years old and I just found out that my 53 year old husband has small cell lung cancer. The chances of him dying is 80%. We have an autistic adult son and we are just beside ourselves with this news. I am too young to be a widow. I can’t imagine my life without him. We have gone through a lot in our lives but I never thought it would end so soon. I’m not saying he is going to die today or tomorrow. But he is stubborn and strong so hopefully I have several more years with him. Thank you.